Design Your Life Around “Unicorn Moments”
Life isn’t meant to be lived on autopilot. In this video, I’ll show you how to design your life around “Unicorn Moments”—those rare, magical experiences that make you feel truly alive. From dream trips to passion projects, I’ll break down how to plan, budget, and actually live the unforgettable stories you’ll want to tell forever. Stop waiting for someday—start building your dream life today.
4/15/20254 min read


We all dream of doing something unforgettable—something that makes life feel truly magical. These experiences don’t have to be once-in-a-lifetime, but they should feel rare, special, and deeply personal. Let’s call them the “unicorns of life”—the unique, meaningful, and memorable moments that make us pause and say, “I can’t believe I’m really doing this.”
Instead of leaving these moments to chance, plan for them.
That’s right—plan for magic. Whether it’s living abroad for a year, taking your parents on a dream vacation, starting a creative project that scares you, or spending a month learning to surf in Bali, these experiences are far more likely to happen when you intentionally include them in your life roadmap.
Make Space for Magic Every Year
A common trap is postponing these dreams for “someday”—a someday that often never comes. But what if you included at least 2–3 unicorn experiences in your yearly plan?
For example, if you want to live in Japan for a year, break it down:
Research visa options.
Estimate living costs (Tokyo averages around USD 3,000/month for a single person).
Start learning the language.
Consider remote work or savings goals to support the move.
With 12–24 months of focused preparation, what once felt like a distant dream becomes entirely achievable.
Why It Matters
Memorable experiences enrich our lives and give us stories we cherish forever.
Research backs this up. A study published in the Journal of Positive Psychology found that
people derive more lasting happiness from experiences than from material purchases. It turns out that planning and anticipating a meaningful event can bring nearly as much joy as the event itself.
This is why designing your life around a few “highlight moments” each year isn’t indulgent—it’s essential.
These moments also serve another purpose: they pull you out of autopilot. They help you re-evaluate what you want, where you’re going, and what matters most. Without these checkpoints, life can easily drift into routine and repetition.
Ground Your Goals in Reality
Dreaming is important—but so is staying grounded. If you’re planning to start a business, begin a family, or take a sabbatical, recognize that timelines often stretch.
According to research by the Kauffman Foundation, the average successful startup takes 3–5 years to become stable and profitable. Similarly, couples trying to conceive naturally can take up to 6–12 months on average, depending on age and health.
The point isn’t to discourage you—but to help you plan more effectively.
Set goals based not just on what you want, but on what’s realistically achievable given your current situation, skills, resources, and responsibilities.
Here’s how you can make that happen:
Start with the “Why”
Ask yourself: What do I want to remember 10 years from now? What stories do I want to tell my kids or friends?
Maybe it’s a road trip across Europe, launching your dream restaurant, or running a marathon. Begin with a clear emotional reason—this will be your motivation.
Break It Down
Big dreams are intimidating until you break them into smaller pieces.
Want to start a YouTube channel? Set micro-goals like:
Create your first 3 video scripts.
Learn basic editing.
Post once a week for a month.
Plan Based on Capacity
Don’t overload yourself. If you're juggling a full-time job and kids, maybe planning one unicorn moment a year is more realistic than three. That’s fine. The goal is consistency, not overload.
Track Your Progress
Revisit your life plan every 3–6 months. What’s working? What needs adjusting? Are you still excited about these goals, or have your priorities shifted?
Budget for It
Great experiences often come with a price tag. Allocate a “dream budget” in your financial plan. Even putting aside $200/month gives you $2,400 a year for something amazing—a solo retreat, a special gift for your partner, or that long-awaited scuba diving course.
Adapt As Life Changes
Life changes. You change. That’s expected.
Marriage, children, health issues, financial ups and downs—all these affect how much time, energy, and money you have for dream-building. The mistake is thinking these changes mean you have to give up on your unicorns entirely. You don’t.
You just need to adapt.
Maybe your “live abroad” dream becomes a 6-week family staycation in a foreign country. Or your startup idea morphs into a side hustle until the kids are older. Flexibility doesn’t kill dreams—it sustains them.
Design Your Life on Purpose
In the end, a good life doesn’t happen by accident. It’s designed, revised, and upgraded over time.
That’s why creating a written life plan, one that includes both practical responsibilities and magical aspirations, is so powerful. It helps you focus, prioritize, and say no to distractions that don’t serve your larger purpose.
By setting realistic, fact-based goals—and updating them regularly—you create a direction to adjust along the way. Without that, you risk drifting through life, hoping things work out but never really steering the ship.
So here’s your challenge: choose one unicorn moment for this year. Just one. Research it, write it down, and break it into steps. Then go chase it—on purpose.
Because life’s too short to wait for magic. You have to build it.
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